The Culture of Men

February 18, 2012

Although we can all think of exceptions, most of the world’s horrific and senseless violence is perpetrated by men, not women.  For the Sexual Futurist Community, this phenomena poses a question related to human sexuality and especially gender culture: how can we structure their upbringing so that boys become heroes rather than villains?  Just one…

Come Watson, The Game’s Afoot!

February 13, 2012

Sherlock Holmes’ daddy was a sexual futurist.  Set in a London that is forever 1895, the author Arthur Conan Doyle lived smack dab in the Victorian Era–hardly a time known for sexual equality and forthright, intelligent management of human sexuality.  But, having just finished Michael Dirda’s On Conan Doyle, a delightful read for any friend…

Geezers Gettin’ Down

February 11, 2012

Often enough parents feel a compelling need to talk to their children about sex and yet we’re often stuck, wondering how to begin.  Perhaps beginning the conversation with our parents might be a good place to practice.  We could hardly do them more harm than life itself already has.  The above title does no justice…

One Million (Angry) Moms

February 9, 2012

As reported by ABC, conservative pundit Bill O’Reilly has come to Ellen DeGeneres’ defense in the backlash against her JCPenney deal.  O’Reilly defended the openly gay talk host against the conservative group One Million Moms, which has organized a boycott of JCPenney unless they fire DeGeneres as a spokeswoman. “This JCPenney thing is a witchhunt…

Paying For It

February 6, 2012

Libertarians like Ron Paul often are open to the decriminalization of recreational drug use.  When applying this same philosophy to sexuality, legalizing prostitution seems to be a reasonable next topic. Chester Brown is a Canadian cartoonist whose work is personal, gritty and controversial.  In Paying For It, one of his more recent works, subsidized by…

Maurice Sendak, Kids & Sex

February 4, 2012

Most parents have some issues with how to talk to their children about sex.  Considering our own discomfort and tendency to turn the topic of sex into a conversation only about intercourse perhaps we need to look a little closer at the subject and ourselves.  In a recent (and absolutely hilarious) 2-part interview (please, watch)…

Hey, Susan Koman: Power to the People!

February 3, 2012

The Arab Spring has seen only the beginning of what the world might expect from social media’s ability to link us together.  In the last few days there have been two powerful demonstrations in the West that show how this phenomenon is working to advance human sexuality.  The Arab Spring has been amazing and wonderful…

The Descendants: 2012 Best American Movie

February 2, 2012

We’re so used to not hearing from men that sometimes, even when they’re telling us their stories, we cannot intuit their invisible suffering much less help them on their journey.  Why would Sexual Futurist talk about a movie like The Descendants that has no sex and no nudity?  Because, as is the case throughout the…

2011 Sexual Futurist of the Year!

January 25, 2012

Our sexual diversity has long been an overlooked strength as those looking for a better world have often allowed themselves to be splintered apart from the whole.   Sexual Futurist exists to serve as a social connection for those sexual futurists who can see that we’re all in this together.  Reason is our underwriter; we…

Judging the Sinners

January 14, 2012

People can be judgmental about most everything but judgmental people reserve a special place in Hell for those who sin sexually.  If you’re needing a hall pass outa hell, here’s how you can get one.  Oddly to Sexual Futurist, the Hindustan Times reported that porn actress Sunny Leone shouldn’t be judged.  Specifically, that Canadian-born porn…